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#76794 - 03/26/05 01:11 AM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: brittciampa]
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Registered: 09/12/04
Loc: North NJ
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How old is everyone else involved in the line? Do you have an instructor? Have you tried talking to the BD?
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#76795 - 03/26/05 01:41 AM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: Cadet311]
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Registered: 11/06/04
Loc: Idaho!!!
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It may be really hard, but try and ignore their immature jokes and be the bigger person. If you give in and let them know its bugging you, they'll deffinately keep it up (I've seen it happen a lot!). If you really need to talk to one of them, talk to them when their alone. Just ask them what they have against you. If all else fails, talk to your director. Hope that helps 
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#76797 - 03/26/05 07:54 AM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: brittciampa]
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Registered: 06/05/03
Loc: MIA
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That is the exact story of my line! Except I play quads and i'm not a freshmen. But I resolved freshmen snare issue. The problem wuz that the freshmen snare player thought he wuz the best so he's kicked back to 3rd Chair. Behind no-one because there are no other snares. The only way the line will hate a freshmen like that is when they brag about it, try to show-off all the time, and walk around school trying to act like their the best.
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#76798 - 03/26/05 10:35 AM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: equad33]
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Registered: 05/12/03
Loc: St. Louis, MO
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This is another reason why I think that a freshman should not be given a position of leadership. Freshman have not earned the respect of the other members of the line yet. Being a leader is not about being the best player all the time. It is also about leading (thank you Captain Obvious) and being able to take control of the drumline and help them become better. That is something that can only been learned through experience. Freshman just don't have the experience and typically don't have the mental maturity to be able to lead.
I partially blame the band director for putting you in that position.
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#76799 - 03/26/05 11:24 AM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: drumcorpbc]
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Registered: 09/12/04
Loc: North NJ
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If you're having problems, talk to the instructor and band director and maybe they can help.
I agree with drumcorpsbc in questioning why a freshman is in charge of the line over juniors and seniors. That will definitely cause animocity, as they put in their time and are now their work is lost for some "fresh blood".
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#76801 - 03/26/05 03:32 PM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: brittciampa]
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Registered: 09/12/04
Loc: North NJ
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Talk to the BD or just let the junior have the position.
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#76802 - 03/26/05 11:01 PM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: Cadet311]
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Registered: 09/18/02
Loc: Brunswick, Maryland, USA
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Dude, take the line and ask them why the heck they keep ignoring and throwing down parts. if they say "it's because you're a freshmen", Then tell them, "Fine, then who else wants the title?" if a guy steps up then ask if the line would listen to him. If they say they will then give him the position of section leader. That's the civilized way of doing it. If you wanted to be an azz.... then you tell the guys up front that if they want to run their own line then challenge you and then beat them in a drum-off and tell them "That's why I'm leader, get over it!". If you act like an azz, you may get more enemies than friends or you may get respect because a freshmen can beat an upperclassman at playing. There are reasons that the BD selected you for leader. Playing ability, responsibility, potential, etc. are all factors for being the Section leader. Either way, just let the hassling run off the shoulder and just play your part. Not your fault if the line refuses to play clean or anywhere close to good.
Edited by Drummer85 (03/26/05 11:02 PM)
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#76803 - 03/27/05 01:19 AM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: Drummer85]
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Registered: 09/12/04
Loc: North NJ
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Quote:
If you wanted to be an azz.... then you tell the guys up front that if they want to run their own line then challenge you and then beat them in a drum-off and tell them "That's why I'm leader, get over it!". If you act like an azz, you may get more enemies than friends or you may get respect because a freshmen can beat an upperclassman at playing. There are reasons that the BD selected you for leader. Playing ability, responsibility, potential, etc. are all factors for being the Section leader. Either way, just let the hassling run off the shoulder and just play your part. Not your fault if the line refuses to play clean or anywhere close to good.
That will just make the situation worse. Don't do that. They'll disrespect you even more. And besides, a leader does not need to be a good player, he needs to be a good leader. However, being in a leader position, the first person that will be targeted when the line is sloppy or not playing is going to be you.
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#76805 - 03/27/05 12:21 PM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: CnyCMallets]
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Registered: 12/24/04
Loc: Middle Township New Jersey
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do you try to be tight with them and get to know them? And are you sure that you dont make it look like you look down on them. Because when you're a leader of a section, it isn't about looking down on everyone because you're better, but it's about leading a group and being the dominant voice, but not the rude one. This is happening to me this year, i am leader of the tenor line, and the other tenor player is a sophomore so he tends to hate me because i play a little better. You just gotta treat them like they're your family. Things go wrong all the time, theres always fights, but you should make sure ur at the same level as them, and never be cocky.
If you've done all of the above, then I'd leisurely talk to them one at a time. I came up to my tenor player the other day and i held his hand real tight, and we made a pact, that we're going to make it a good season, we're not going to fight, we're not going to go behind each others backs, and we're ALWAYS there for each other. In my school at least, you'd never hesitate to stick uo for someone in your section outside of band, my drumline IS my family. Thats how u gotta be.
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#76807 - 03/31/05 12:56 AM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: brittciampa]
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Registered: 03/29/05
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The same thing is sort-of happing on my line. The thing is im not really big or strong so when i tell someone to do something they will just endup beating me up or ignoring me. I find the best solution is to let the line run itself. Everyone knows what to do. Just dont be to bossey. Just be set back and relaxed. People will respect you for being nice and not mean. If your mean your line will hate you and they will just try to tic you off. Or just get the best senoir and tell him to tell the line to listen up. If anyone has a problem with that YOU SERVE THEM!!!!!!!(no, that makes things worse.)
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#76810 - 04/12/05 07:25 PM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: ace2106]
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Registered: 02/25/05
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seniority plays a huge role, whether you're the best player or not, whether the BD/instuctor gives you support or not, and whether you're really good friends with every member outside rehearsal or not. it's a part of being in high school. the same happens in college as well, and in drumcorps. i'ts a natural state to NOT want to take orders, for lack of a better term, from someone that hasn't been there as long as you have.
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#76812 - 04/29/05 12:15 AM
Re: AAAAHH! My line HATES me!
[Re: SnareMan124]
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Registered: 09/04/04
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Don't "Tell" your line anything. Set the example. Get there 20 minutes early, leave 20 minutes after everyone else, and make sure your work is as close to spotless as possible. At that point, your clout becomes more deserved, and some might even think, "I've got to be better than the freshie," and take it like a challenge. The least that happens is you get better, and you'll have more street cred for next year.
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