For rolls at very fast tempos, you're pretty much only applying pressure to the stick with your index finger and thumb. Tempos a little lower than that, maybe just the index and middle finger. However, for the sake of consistency of technique, your fingers should stay in roughly the same place even if they're not actually pushing on the stick. That way, they're ready to go when it's time to use them again. So keep those pinkies curled under even if you're not using them, and don't be out to tea!